Causes and Remedies of Disappointments

1) Overconfidence : Everything is to be done confidently , but overconfidence of doing something sometimes leads to disappointment. I had a friend named Kabir who was apt in climbing trees. One day while we were enjoying tree climbing game he climbed a mango tree and then began to move around its branches without the help of his hands.This was the overconfidence of Kabir. We were astonished to see his ability. Suddenly the mishap took place he slipped on his feet and fell down form from the branch and badly injured on his head and began vomiting.We rushed him to our village hospital and after few minutes he succumbed to his injury. This was an unforgettable disappointing moment for us.

2) Fictitious Goal: Every person should have a goal in his/her life. But the  goal should always be the realistic one. Setting any fictitious or absurd goal can lead to disappointment in one's life.

3) Ability to Accept the Failure: The persons who have the  ability to accept the failures as a part of       life generally achieve success in their lives.

4) Refrain from being a 100% perfectionist : None can be 100% perfect in this world. So it always the most wise thought not to try to become a 100% perfectionist to get rid of certain disappointments in life. 

5) Sharing problems : Sharing problems with  others  is another remedy to lessen the stress of disappointments    and eventually helps to find the right track to be followed in   future.

6) Exclusion of Greediness:  One must exclude greediness from one's mind  to remain in a safe distance from the agony of disappointments.

7) Lack of education : Lack of education and awareness is another cause that may lead to disappointments in one's life. Hence one should always try to accumulate adequate  knowledge and information about a matter from which  success can be expected.